ok did one last thing with the module plug in i close number 2 relay with a piece of plastic all lights went out except the bas light spoiler worked so looks like the relay is not working or its not getting power to it have to check power coming to it to be sure right
Ala-xfire and pizzaguy are both electrical engineers and have intimate knowledge of the circuitry and how it works But to answer your question yes more than likely the traction control relay has a short on the inside. Seems to be a common problem with these relays.