Hi. I've had my car for a year now, and am approaching 10,000 miles, and am getting a wrench icon with the number of miles left to 10,000. The dealership has sent me the same letter mentioned in this thread, threatening me that I'll void my warranty if I don't bring the car in every 3 months. Thus far I've made appointments to change the oil at every 3,000 miles which has stretched now to over a month from when they tell me the deadline is.

First question, is there service I need done at 10k that's not been done at 9k? Second question, if not can I reset the maintenance message myself?

I do plan to eventually let the car tell me when it needs service, but at the moment I have oil change coupons that have an expiration date on them.