Okay I have watched all of the videos and done all of the research on installing this electrical tranny plug and so I know I am doing it correct after watching over 20 videos But for the life of me no matter how much I coat the new connector with tranny oil I cannot get it to push all the way into the cavity. Is there some other lubricant you guys can suggest. I know not to use grease as that will compromise the rubber gaskets.

I have where other forum members struggled t get the connector seated or pushed all the way in. Any suggestions would really help