Personally, I have to disagree with you about the chrome grill. I think it looks great against the black. But, since you don't care for it, you may want to paint your grill black to match. There is a white and a red Crossfire posted in the gallery with color matched grills, maybe a black one also. I think you could go this route and be satisfied.

I don't know about a chrome spoiler, I'd have to see one, doesn't sound good, though. The diffusers that come from CTD are white. You'd have to have them chromed, if that's possible.