Wonderdallas:

All I can say that I understand how you must feel. Had it happen to me too.

My advice, and I wish I had been given this at the start of my divorce:

Kick the bum out. Change the locks on the house today. Tomorrow, close the bank accounts and sell everything BUT the Crossfire and liquidate to cash. Bury the cash. Then get the meanest dirtiest divorce lawyer you can find.

When they ask what you did with all the money, just tell them you gave it to Billy Graham in a fit of despair....

It is a terrible time, but you will get through it. Then you will find someone that makes you as happy as you deserve to be.

I truly wish you all the best.