I hope she doesn't join the thread and explain anything, since it's none of your business what she does with any money that is donated to help her out.
Your accusations are unfounded but if you have proof of your accusations, please, by all means post it. There are a few police officers on this site that could probably suggest which agencies to contact to have legal action taken against anyone who is pulling a scam like the one you proport is going on here, but we need proof and it seems you are the only one who can provide that, so lay it on us. If you don't have proof then quit throwing your slanderous accusations around.
Some people have said this is an open forum and you are entitled to your opinion, and they are right, but let me clarify something a little better. This is a privately owned site and as such you have no RIGHT to post your opinion and you are only ENTITLED to post your opinions if it is ok with the site owner, luckily he's pretty easy going about these things, so I would imagine you are ENTITLED to post your opinions. But along with rights and entitlement comes RESPONSIBILITY like the reponsibility of not posting accusations with out having facts to back up those claims.
So I, and it appears others, eagerly await this proof that you must have since I'm sure you would not be irresponsible enough to throw around accusations with out having proof to back it up.
I hope I didn't mislead you into thinking that on a privately owned site you have no rights at all and the only entitlements are the ones allowed you by the owner of the site, that is not what I meant. You do have one right on a privately owned site, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO LEAVE.