Brother, I feel your pain. Just replaced both low and high beam lamps. Driver's side not too bad, but passenger side high beam was a mother! I know it is not the way the manual tells you to replace that bulb, but I found it easier to remove the coolant resevoir (after much coercing). I had plenty of room to change the bulb. Not easy no matter how you do it. I did use a mirror and had a couple of brewskies after to ease the pain.

Frenchy
Charleston, SC
2004 Coupe