Okay the problems gone..and before we could even get it in to get the check engine light read the car was doing fine and no more problems..so its must be getting something wet, but i was the car daily just not with the automatic one i hand wash it and its never done it, but its done it both times ive used the automatic one..so i dont know.

Monday im going to take it in and see what a mechanic says, thanks for the advice though everyone.