thanks guys
I have no intention of "visiting" him. Life goes on... peacefully I hope. And no, I do not judge all men by his cowardly actions.

I do however have a very good friend who is a criminal lawyer. She will be vacationing near him (Scottsdale) and has offerd to paint a giant purple, "Love, Cathie" on the side of his car. She says she could avoid charges if she is caught. We had a good laugh over it but it is not a serious plan!