I have had my XF for a bit over two months and it has been hit and miss with me. Only one time did someone tell me it was a girls car. I have had several guys ask me about it at the gas station. One happened to be a hardcore mopar guy who had just purchased a new hemi powered challenger for his wife. He was very interested in the crossfire. I do get alot of thats a cute car or wow nice car from the the ladies though.