Okay I over modified my grill and about 90% of it decided to eject itself on my way to Atlanta. I believe the cause of this was my removal of the bottom row of the bent up lip in the rear without this there was no down pressure on the bottom of the grill to hold it tight against the bumper. Air was able to get behind it and at 80mph the constant buffeting caused it to leave. The only piece I have left is the top row that bolts to the car.
After talking to the dealership I have concluded that our grills must have been made with gold dust as part of the compound since they want over 300 for a new one. I figure if I am going to spend that kind of money I might as well get a custom one. I would appreciate it if anyone can tell me where I might find a custom grill for our cars.