ok guys, i think i am to the home stretch... finally taking some time to open up the kickplate and install the two wires.... i found a "light green/white wire on the larger connector going into the amp.... matches up with the pic of the instructions (says dark green/white) but i think its right...

now the reverse wire is a different story, says i am looking for gray/yellow, i see a gray, a gray/black... but no gray/yellow i am goung to get a diffderent flash light to see if i can get a better look at it....

thanks