Have I got some bad news for you...........when was the last time you actually heard anybody say they deserved a ticket when they got one??? Everyone always has an excuse and without the police officer there to rebut the "version" the poor person who got the ticket is telling....well, that's how these urban legends get started...
Sorry to hear that your experiences with police here has been less than satisfactory....but citizens go for years without being contacted by an officer, so I would have to ask, why are you talking to so many....? Where there is smoke, there is indeed often fire...