Deb, my wife may be able to locate him for you. She's a licensed Private Investigator with 25+ years experience, and ex law enforcement. She's done more locate work than you can shake a stick at, and has found people with nothing but a cell phone number or email address. She has a special place in her heart for guys who take advantage of nice women. Feel free to PM me and I can see about getting the two of you in touch.