My boyfriend doesn't get it at all. I think a big part is that he doesn't really fit in my car. Either his knees are in his chest or his head is pulling a "Dino" out the top of the roof. He didn't want to go to any meets. Just rolled his eyes and said "that's your thing." Of course he went to the Daytona Beach Dream Cruise with me yesterday, fix easily in Ben Book's base coupe (Ben is a BIG boy), met some great XF folks & suddenly the whole XF thing is looking pretty good to him. I think if we become a 2 XF family the second one is going to be a black base coupe 6sp instead of the Aero Blue SRT6 I wanted. How many 3 XF families are out there?!?!