Uncle AL really said it all - but I thank all of your for your responses, here and in PM's.

Well, tomorrow a decision to move her into a nursing home might be made. Deb really wants a qualified nursing home, at least in the short term. The therapies and support there would really help.

I am hearing a calmness and almost relief in her voice. I think the stress of being around 'him', that is, the END of that stress might make all of this worth while.



Again, thanks to all of you and I'll be flying to Boston and Baltimore in 13 days to look at two "Roadsters with a stick". I was feeling guilty for thinking that I had a "problem" - the problem of looking for a sportscar when I already have one AND when my sister is in a mess like this. But I feel better now - and think I can enjoy my trip when it comes!


Thanks again, all of you.