Eh, well what kind of HID's are you working with?? My experience: I threw on 35 watt HID's with the relay... I had sooooo many problems with the damn relays and ofcourse I always had a "light out" warning. Basically it was a full year of headaches when it came to the lights, and from i can tell, it was the damn relays...

What i ended up doing was buying 55watt HID kits. I installed them without relays.. B/c of the 55watt supply, i no longer get the "light out" warning, and I havent had a single problem with the lights since the install which was about 8 months ago. People don't always appreciate the brightness of my lights, but we have projector lenses and we can focus them out of the eyes of oncoming traffic.

hope that helps!