Nothing more to add to the insurance conversation and the window problem is addressed fully elsewhere in the site. But it sounds like your dash also got wet. Is that correct, cbyrd?
I don't think the dash got wet. However i do think that the trunk area might have gotten water in it and something could have shorted out that way. Talk to hubby about maybe needing a new battery and he was willing to try that! He talked to the dealership again and they are pretty set that is the abs module (i think that mainly casue that was what the code reader said). Plus they want our money too i'm sure! He said $100 bucks for a new battery would be better than $1100 for the abs.
I think he is also going to try the window repair that you guys suggested (Thank again tighed1) and see how that works. So hope all works out well. I will keep you guys posted on results