So is the place to stay for everyone the Silverland hotel? If everyone is staying there we will join along but if everyone wants to kind of fan out then the wife has another place in mind. We are working on getting everything finalized here very soon.

*edit* went ahead and booked at the Silverland. The indoor heated pool sold us, as it should help keep the wife's migraines at bay from all the driving. We are checking in Monday evening and are booked through Sat morning.
Now if I could just get the San Fran hotel to answer so I can book there I would be much happier.