Well we poke fun at each other, and argue a bit, but once we are all together at the Fontana Hotel, you just want to relax and mingle with the group. They aren't as mean in person...lol... It really is a fun time and don't let the "driving" stories get to you either. They are kind of like "fishing" stories. There isn't any pressure at all for you to go out and drive crazy. It is more of a huge car show than anything else. The people are great, the stories are great, and last but not least the scenery is great...and I am talking about the mtns for all you ole' farts...oops, I am one of those....anyway...this is your time if you want to see a lot of cool cars, and great scenery. Plenty of shopping nearby as well...