Everybody wants to ignore the Elephant in the room huh... LOL.

When that other thread popped up I thought we finally had an answer.. then dug deeper and found it was only to activate sensors.

Did you ever try calling around to tire shops and see if they use the ATEQ VT55 programming tool?
Unless the dealer totally jacked up the computer settings, someone with that programmer should be able to fix you up in a heartbeat since you have the ID's.