OK, a little more of an update...the fuel pump fuse is pristine as are the relays and solder points (no debris, no heat marks, intact solder). Remembering that this is a 14K mile cream puff. The case for the pump itself seems to be getting stronger unless I am missing something.

As far as the relay itself goes...As I look for a replacement on line, all I find is a 250 dollar unit. All of the other relays indicate that they are not compatible with the 05 crossfire srt6.