The "Near me" part is what will ruin this for you. My first Roadster was 90 miles (140km) from me. But it really was not the 'right car'.
My Graphite was THE car for me, it was 2200 miles away, my SE was even more THE car for me, it was 500 miles away.

I bought a one-way plane ticket both times, if THE car is out there, do yourself a good turn and GO GET IT.