Suspect my BCM may be part of my problems, 2005 roadster , and am attempting to remove/replace with one I just purchased---pulled it out , now trying to remove the connector---appears the large metal retainer must pull up to remove the connectors---cant pull this all the way up---I dont see any other release tabs, etc holding the connectors on----dont want to force anything/damage anything---what am I missing---help/advice please-- Leroy