So yes the aftermarket wheels and Tires had spacers and they used the spacers on the factory wheels and tires too. The set that was on the car (aftermarket) were not very smooth, flat spots on the tires from sitting for almost a year.. (250 total miles)

the factory wheels and tires are alot smoother under 70 and then all hell breakes loose. I don't know what lug nuts I need., I have several..
I know I have a mess on my hands. Thanks I will update when I get things figured out