Originally Posted by
dontbreak
wiggled wire loom going into relay box and notice lights came back on thought this was a ground issue replaced ground wire but obviously its in the wire loom any thoughts on which circuits i should investigate?

You have found the problem. Now, go turn the lights on and start wiggling the wires till you find where the bad connection is, by seeing the lights flicker.
THis should be easy now.
Now, I do have one question - what "relay box" are you talking about? CLEARLY, the issue is in or near that spot.