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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 05:36 PM
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OK, I don't ask for much around here...... but I need your guys help now.

A friend of mine has a special needs daughter, she has asperger's disease. she doesn't get to do much, but one thing she likes to do is dance and try to cheerlead. recently she was at a school function and some little POS decided to take a cellphone video of her and post it as a "sped shuffle" on youtube. Youtube personnel don't see this as harassing, even though Meghan has been taking crap about it for a few weeks now and no longer wants to attend any school functions.

Here's the link......... YouTube - Sped Shuffle 2

We need to bring this video down guys........thanks for any help you can give.
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 06:03 PM
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You got my support
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 06:06 PM
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does your state has internet harassment laws? if so, the kid that posted the video could end up in major trouble. do a google search to see if there are cyber harassment laws in your state then take it to the local prosecuting attorney.
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 06:36 PM
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I got your back, man!

PLEASE EVERYONE:

1) Click on the "thumbs down" icon.
2) Then click on the "REPORT THIS AS INAPPROPRIATE" link.


( I then choose the "hateful" option - I suggest everyone else do that, too.)





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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 07:09 PM
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Done.

Unfortuntely it is not harrasment if posted only once . You need a patern of harrassment to get a conviction.
The poster can remove it. I wonder the legality of getting their name and posting it.

franc
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 07:20 PM
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Got my help, thumbs down and an angry post. was a short video that really didnt show much but still, kids being kids ican see how damaging this would be to a young girl


Found this about her condition. As you can read its difficult for children to become socially active. Your friend's daughter is really making a huge statement about her courage by putting herself out there outside her comfort zone.


Asperger's disease (also known as Asperger's syndrome) is one of a group of neurological conditions known as autism spectrum disorders (ASD).

Children with Asperger's disease usually have developmental delays in motor skills, appearing clumsy and uncoordinated when performing movements such as climbing outdoor play equipment or pedaling a bike. But while children with classic autism generally have problems with verbal and nonverbal communication as well, those with Asperger's typically have a high level of vocabulary and formal speech patterns.

(Click Asperger Symptoms for more symptoms of this condition.)

Children who have Asperger's disease tend to become fascinated with a single topic of interest. They want to know everything about this topic and their conversations with others will be about little else. As a result, children with Asperger's are often isolated because of their poor social skills and narrow interests. They often make normal conversation impossible by inappropriate or eccentric behavior, or by wanting to talk only about their singular interest.

The treatments for Asperger's disease can include:
 

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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 08:05 PM
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I didn't really see anything that bad with the video, it's just some girl dancing, and then skipping away?
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 08:21 PM
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I put a link to the video on thespaceport - youtube should be flooded with complaints by monday!

That brandbll guy who has commented twice is one of my guys from THESPACEPORT.
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 09:02 PM
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Default Re: I need your help guys!!!!

Honestly, apkano, the vid didn't appear disparaging at all, but in any event something should be done before the problem escalates.

Bullying is taken very serious nowadays, so if my daughter was getting a hard time at school, I'd head straight to the school's admin office and raise hell. The administrators would be inclined to take prompt action with the POS that shot the vid and any others involved.

Seems that the authorities are more and more aware of the aspects of bullying and have become a lot more proactive in response and prevention.

So have your friend speak up to someone in charge at the school. Pronto.
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 09:28 PM
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I know its a short film that seems harmless at first until you look at the circumstances. A young lady with a medical condition that makes social interaction hard for her gets basically called a retard (SPED2) on the Internet.

Now having a condition and a label, she is trying to face each day with undoubtedly having snickers and other comments. Don't forget how cruel kids can be! My heart goes out to her.

How would any of you react to a seemingly innocent 5 second video of your daughter plastered on the internet with a derogatory title poking fun of her. Ever look into the eyes of a crushed spirit and try to offer consolement when there isn't any? I have and it's not easy. I hope the kid that posted this someday needs a little compassion. Oh, wait, I remember all kids like him are invincible, thoughtless hard asses and the rest of society is a herd for them to despise and annoy.

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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 09:32 PM
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is there something I don't understand about the title?
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 09:35 PM
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Default Re: I need your help guys!!!!

Originally Posted by billvp
is there something I don't understand about the title?
I would guess it's a nasty twist on Special Education. Is there a Sped Shuffle 1?
 
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Old Jan 15, 2011 | 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Kane
I would guess it's a nasty twist on Special Education. Is there a Sped Shuffle 1?
yes, he posted a previous vid called SPED shuffle. It also received 6 angry comments concerning his lack of regard for others

yes, sped is a derogatory term for special education
 
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Old Jan 16, 2011 | 12:17 PM
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Default Re: I need your help guys!!!

Thanks for all the help guys....every bit is appreciated.

In short, people are looking into getting the school involved, youtube themselves involved, even trying to get the parents involved.

Just reading the comments posted about this video has already done wonders for Megan..... I really can't thank you guys enough.

In thinking back on my youth..... I'm sure I've made fun of someone at one point in life...... but I'd NEVER post up a video of someone making fun of them for all the world to see. The sad thing is this just hurts 2 people..... in the short term it hurts Megan, but in the long run (years down the road) it's going to hurt this punk kid as well. Someday he'll look back on this and regret it.
 
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Old Jan 16, 2011 | 12:44 PM
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You have my support on this. BTW, I read somewhere that Einstein was thought to have aspergers as did Dr Asperger who researched and lent his name to the syndrome
 
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Old Jan 17, 2011 | 03:12 PM
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Default Re: I need your help guys!!!

I've said it before and I'll say it again and again........ you guys are the BEST!

The video was taken down today (as well as a few other distasteful ones).Thank you one and all for all your help and comments. It really means a lot to me, and more so to Megan.

You guys are awesome!
 
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Old Jan 17, 2011 | 03:21 PM
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It felt good to do something good!
 
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Old Jan 18, 2011 | 06:18 PM
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Default Re: I need your help guys!!!

Sorry I missed out lending a hand, but I'm glad the video is already down. I have a cousin with Aspergers, and I can sympathize.
 
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