Feel like an appology is in order.

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Mar 5, 2014 | 12:43 PM

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rayth

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Re: Feel like an appology is in order.

All good advice by these gentlemen but let me also say WELCOME BACK TO THE SINGLE LIFE. Realizing its all probably for the best is the first step and sounds like you're already there. Keep your head up and do what you need to do.. I've also got a pretty fun breakup story if you ever want to swap war tales.. if you're ever out near Boston, drinks are on me

Mar 5, 2014 | 01:08 PM

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sk8erjosh09

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Re: Feel like an appology is in order.

Is the plane ticket on you too? That's far as hell! Lmao

Mar 5, 2014 | 01:15 PM

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sk8erjosh09

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Re: Feel like an appology is in order.

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Originally Posted by ala_xfire

Think maybe the lack of alcohol is having any effect on your temper ?
That USED to be my problem.
For the first 9 years of my marriage, I was still drinking and we fought all the time.
The last 28 years I have had only the occasional single beer, and we have not had any serious arguments.

Not so much, I'm the happiest drunk ever. If she jumped on me for drinking while I was drinking, sure, I'd get pissed, and not drinking the conversation/argument would never have been brought up.

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Originally Posted by StevE55

Josh…

We all feel your pain and wish only the best for you. Let time do its magic, stay close to your friends, bury yourself in your passion and don’t do anything stoopid. A lot of wise, heartfelt post from experienced members shows you are not alone here. I am not experienced (sorry Jimi Hendrix) but only by the grace of god…. I didn’t get married until age 33, so had many short “until we part” relationships all at a time when aids were people that worked at the hospital. As irresponsible as that was, it allowed me to learn about myself and grow as a person. One thing I know for sure is that the person that married at 33 was not the same as at age 18. I’m thinkin… Take this one as a feather in your cap, grow, experience life, love yourself and everything else seems to fall into place…you will know when that is….

''Every marriage, no matter how brief, is an opportunity to learn more about yourself, your wants and needs, and that is a good thing. Sure, when they end it is painful but in Western society we are reluctant to sit with pain and process it, yet it is a vital part of life. It is how we learn. It can be a gift.''

Take good care….

I appreciate everything Steve, thanks. I also planned on giving you a call tonight to discuss where we stand on me re-unlocking that ECU and sending it out to you.