Dump them both and get a new mod for your xfire. It will last longer, won't give you grief, in the end be a LOT less expensive and you'll enjoy the ride that much more!

 

Here is the way I see it. You need to take some responsiblity for this..You must not really love your current fiance if you cheated on her. Now is a perfect time to figure out if you do really love her or are just in it for some other reason. If you tell her now, it will save you from more issues after marriage. I love my Wife and even though she yells, gripes and blows thing out of proportion occasionally, I would never think of cheating on her. Even with one of my Ex's ( I can remember one that was hot as hell) You are young and can re coupe from this easily and find a new woman. I didn't get married till almost 31 and I'm glad I waited. Most of us who are slightly older and learned from our mistakes are trying to give you the best advice. Tell your fiance, see what happens. Wait till that kid is born and get a paternity test. Move on if the current plans for marriage don't work out. Remember there are more fish in the sea. Good Luck!!

 

Post your fiancés email on the forum and we can tell her for you.
Then once she knows we can let her read all the posts on this thread and see all the great advice that has been offered .

 

GUESS WHAT?!?!?! WOOT WOOT!!!!! she is not pregnant! atleast some things are going my way!

 

that's great news. lesson learned... i hope.

 

yes DEFINATELY lesson learned lol!

 

I disagree with some of what you said. The human capacity exists to love more than one woman, much the same way as you can love more than one child. Perhaps not in the same way. The real decision to make is which one you love enough, or more to marry or share your everyday life with.

Some people have many friends while others choose just one or two... You can't state that because he indulged in this discretion that he doesnt love either or both of them.

I would add that although you love soemone it doesnt always mean you can live with them.

 

So does that mean you're NOT going to tell your fiancee?

 

i gotta say, the crossfire forum is a lot better than dr. phil. afterall, "You don't need Flopsy, Mopsy, and Cottontail to hear me ramble like a boob."

 

I think whoever holds the black briefcase should nuke this thread for this kid.

 

she's deffinatly gonna find this thread on your history or on the URL memory, 'cause you know one day when your out and she's alone at your place....need I say more. kill it! Girls are snoops and they live for this stuff.

 

Another great piece of advise MAX...You need to man up and forget about your so called mistake, If you think you feel bad now, just wait until you tell her. She will do one of two things:
- Dump your a$$
- or if she decides to stay with you, she will never let you forget it...what more she might give you some payback.........Plus, you can forget about getting any for a long time. Sorry to the ladies on this forum but when a woman is placed in this position, she will make your life miserablel.....NEVER NEVER TELL.....If you can't live with this, man up and move on ....come on you're only 20...

 

Lots of talk on here of love. Only thing I can think of is to not confuse love with lust....

 

And now for my 2 cents:
Never tell her (100% agreement w/ Maxwell). To do so only makes you feel less guilty. No sense in trashing everyone's life in order to make your guilty conscience go away. Swallow the guilt & move along.
In addition, if you do ever find the need to escape head south. I hear Paraguay has a ratio of 3 women to every 1 man. Not sure about Crossfire technicians, though!
And finally, as proposed, kill this thread el pronto. Women DO live for this kinda detective work. Take it from a guy who's been married for 32 years!!

 

My feeling is that your not ashamed, embarrassed or sorry for what you've done or you wouldn't have put this up here for a bunch of strangers to comment on and where the whole world can find it if they want to look for it. That being said don't say anything and dump the fiancee before she finds out. Your young, why settle down right now? When I was your age I was slingin' more pipe than a plumber. Just remember not to ride bareback next time.

 

You can get two uses out of them. Use them once and turn them inside out and use them again.

 

OMFG......that is just sooooooooo wrong.

 

and extended warranty just in case something goes wrong the 2nd time.

 

You got it right man.

and sorry to the ladies of the house - the daughters, the sisters, the wife etc

 

Nate

The only next person you can confess to, other than the one in the mirror, is the one behind those close grilled window. As long as he is none of your future in-law.