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AllX'dUp (Terry and Barbara) in our thoughts

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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 03:14 PM
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Terry,
So sorry to hear the news. Our thoughts and best wishes to you.
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 03:56 PM
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Terry, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have to believe that Barb is in a better place. Now it is time for you to take care of yourself. My prayers are for your strength.

See you soon my friend.
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 04:02 PM
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I can't imagine what your Wife must have endured, and the heartache you surely felt this past year. She must have been a strong Woman. God Bless you both, You're in our prayers.
 

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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 04:58 PM
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Our deepest condolences-----
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by VALKRYDERGUY
Terry called me.
Said Barb's wishes were to be cremated and have her ashes scattered in a memorial run on the "Tail of the Dragon"

She might have her wish in October.
Terry may be coming to join us for this run.
This was discussed here in November last year.
Terry will be joining us at the Fall Dragon but the memorial run with the spreading of Barbs ashes will be done at the Spring Dragon next year.
Barb's family members wish to be part of this run and will join us in the spring.
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 06:32 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.. It must be very tough, as she has been struggling for so long. As pizzaguy said, I hope you have found some peace. RIP
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 10:24 PM
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A Special Thank You to our Crossfire Family, Barb was definitely a strong and unique individual and she will be missed. In fact I was learning to love her in new ways since her diagnosis and treatments.
My last words to her this morning were, no sorrows, no regrets, no expectations...when it is time it is OK to go play dominoes with daddy (check with me if you want the explanation of that statement)
At that point I kissed her forehead, rubbed her hand and went to open the door to let the hospice nurse in and when we got back to her room she had passed.
It is an emotional time, and her family that is present feels it strange that I have not cried yet...I don't know that I will, for me it is more of a relief that she is no longer in pain, I don't have to worry that she will fall and I won't be there to catch her etc...It truly has been a long strange journey but I am happy knowing she passed quietly amongst freinds & family and not in a dingy hospital with strangers. The only thing now is to celebrate her life, planning a wake here at our apartment for local freinds and co-workers. A memorial for family in freinds in Houston TX is being discussed (TBA) and then finally a memorial and her final wish at the Spring Dragon GTG
So thanks again to all our freinds, we take comfort in your condolensces and well wishes (sharing your posts with them until they go home Tues) TERRY
 
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Old Sep 4, 2011 | 11:04 PM
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Our prayers go to you all. Now, surely, she is resting in peace.
 
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 04:54 AM
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Terry:

Roberta & I wish to express our sorrow for your loss of Barbara. The loss of a loved one, especially one so close to you as Barbara, is always a difficult thing to understand. We can all take solice in the fact that her physical suffering is finally over, your emotional suffering now will begin to diminish and the loving memories you have of your time together on this earth will be forever a lasting testimonial to your bond & love for each other.

God Bless,
 
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 07:07 AM
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Saddened to learn of Barb's passing. Keep the Faith knowing you are surrounded by a great deal of love,care and support as you go through this valley. You are not alone.
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 08:45 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
 
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 12:28 PM
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Terry you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
 
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 01:56 PM
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I'm so sorry for for your loss Terry, you and your family are in my prayers.
 
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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 02:06 PM
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Terry, Though I didn't know you or your wife Barb, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. May you take comfort in the happy times you shared together and in the fact that her suffering is over. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
 
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Old Sep 7, 2011 | 09:10 AM
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Terry, I'm so sorry to hear about Barb. My prayers are with you and your family....Judi
 
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Old Sep 7, 2011 | 10:30 AM
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Condolences from Cathy and Myself.

We will endeavor to include the Spring Dragon run in our plans for next year.


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Old Sep 11, 2011 | 07:33 PM
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Terri- it's been a long while since we met, I remember Barb as warm and friendly, someone who was easy to talk too having just met her. I'm glad your attending this TOD, it will help you start to find old pleasures and surely will put a huge smile on Barb's face seeing you returning to friends and fun. Drive safely and blast the music loud it can sooth the soul.
 
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